“When there’s a pause in a conversation, do you rush to fill it — or can you sit in that space and let someone else’s thought emerge?”
— Presencing Skills
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“When there’s a pause in a conversation, do you rush to fill it — or can you sit in that space and let someone else’s thought emerge?”
— Presencing Skills
The next time you feel the itch to decide, pause and say: “What haven’t we considered yet?” Give yourself one more round of exploration before committing.
Two team members have opposing views on a key decision. What is your natural response?
Premature compromise often means both sides lose a little. Productive tension — held with respect — often leads to a third option nobody saw coming. The discomfort is where the breakthrough hides.
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When you feel drawn to a solution in the first 5 minutes of a discussion, write it on a sticky note — then set it aside. Spend the next 15 minutes exploring at least two alternatives before you look at it again.